Doing These 6 Things Can Make Your Man Love You More Every Day
As women, we want our men to love us for who and what we are, no matter how crazy and quirky we might get. Men are also like that, after all, a relationship only lasts if two people are always aware of what the other is feeling, right?
That’s why, even if we want to keep our men, it might be a good idea to keep that in mind. We can’t control how much your man loves you, that’s up to him. But there are definitely ways that you can do or not do to make sure that he sees you for the wonderful, thoughtful woman you are.
1. Accept that you have different likes and dislikes
Since we are opposite genders, it’s only natural that men and women generally don’t like the same things. And it’s OK, since that’s what makes your partner interesting in the first place. Always keep in mind that your man is always thinking about pleasing you, so don’t go about making him feel guilty that he doesn’t like the same things you do.
2. Don’t make him feel that he has to cater to your every whim
I bet that your ideal guy is someone that worships you hand to foot, am I right? Unfortunately ladies, only he can decide how much he cares for you; don’t go jumping to the conclusion that since he doesn’t care for your every want and need, he doesn’t love you anymore. They are only human after all.
3. Don’t expect that he will only look at you forever
We all want our men to notice us, and only us. But unfortunately, as much as we often glance at the occasional hot guy over the street, men can’t resist the urge to snatch a look at another hot girl that comes their way. Accept that this is human nature working, and not your guy being disloyal. However, if he openly flirts with another girl in front of you, it might be time to put your foot down.
4. Trust your man
Trust is needed for any relationship to work, especially in romantic ones. As women, we often rely on our intuition to make our decisions for us, and most of the time they’re right. But we can go overboard sometimes and make up an entire novel of disloyalty just from a simple text you saw his female coworker sent him. We gotta keep our insecurities in check and allow ourselves some vulnerability by trusting the man that we love.
If you do find that there are solid suspicious behaviors that he’s showing, calmly talk to him about it and don’t overreact. Respect, patience and empathy are the ingredients along with trust that we need to make our relationships last.
5. Let him be who he is
We all got something about our man that we want to change ASAP, but as frustrating as it can be, there are just some things we can’t change. Men don’t like feeling that they’re being pressured to change just to be in a relationship; after all a man will only change if he wants to. Trust me, if you value your man for who he is, he will be so happy that he has found a woman that genuinely accepts him for who he is.
6. Let him live his passions
Most men have something that gives drive to their lives; either it be taking apart and rebuilding cars or motorcycles, to reading and writing books and novels. As much as we want our men to focus on only us, it’s never a good idea to ask your man to give up his passions just for you; that will only make him feel miserable, which often leads to problems down the road. Don’t be insecure if he decides to do his passions instead of spending time with you, and always remember that unless he has given you reason to doubt him, he still loves you.
Relationships are like walking a tightrope, there are so many pitfalls that you two gotta watch out for. But if you keep these things in mind, even if you are so frustrated that you might want to kill him, always remember that mutual love and respect is needed for a relationship to work.